Meeting youth where they are: A story of growth and possibility

Military man standing in front of bushes and One Stop Transitional Age Youth building. — *From navigating loss and homelessness to graduating Army basic training, Kai’s story reflects resilience, growth, and the life-changing support of the TAY Center.*

When Kai first arrived at the One-Stop Transitional Age Youth Center, he was 20 years old and navigating some of life’s most profound challenges.

At age 14, he experienced the devastating loss of his brother, followed two years later by the passing of his father. These losses, combined with a strained relationship with his mother, persistent feelings of disconnection, and the instability of homelessness, deeply impacted his emotional well-being.

By the time Kai was referred to the TAY Center following a 90-day stay in a crisis residential treatment program, he was struggling with significant depression, low self-esteem and suicidal ideation. Despite this difficult beginning, Kai gradually found a sense of belonging within the TAY community.

With access to shelter-bed housing, weekly individual therapy, group therapy and ongoing case management, Kai began to regain stability. He formed meaningful connections with peers, volunteered his time and consistently offered encouragement and support to others, often without expectation. His resilience, generosity and willingness to show up for those around him made him a valued member of the TAY Center.

Over time, Kai shared his aspiration to join the United States Army. The treatment team remained committed to supporting his goals, providing encouragement and guidance throughout the process. After beginning boot camp, staff were grateful to receive regular updates and were encouraged to learn that Kai was thriving. The structure and challenge of military service became a pivotal turning point in his journey, fostering confidence, purpose and a renewed sense of pride.

Kai has since graduated from boot camp, received his assignment and relocated to another state. Although his case has formally closed, he continues to stay in touch with the TAY Center and recently returned to visit staff and peers, this time proudly wearing his Army fatigues. Those who saw him were struck by his transformation: a confident, self-assured young man standing tall.

Kai’s journey is a powerful reminder of what is possible when we meet young people where they are, listen with compassion and walk alongside them as they define success for themselves. At the One-Stop TAY Center, we believe that with hope, encouragement and consistent support, young people can heal, grow and build meaningful futures.

TAY Centers provide outpatient behavioral health services and supportive resources for youth and young adults ages 16 to 26. Individuals and families are encouraged to contact a TAY Center near them to learn more about available services and support options. Additional information can be found at www.sbcounty.gov/dbh/otherservices.

Additional County Update News – January 22